
"And of his signs is this, that He created mates for you from yourselves that you might find quiet of mind in them, and He put between you love and compassion. Surely there are signs in this for a people who reflect." (30:21)

"Our Rabb, Grant unto us Spouses and Offspring who will be the comfort of our eyes and gives us (the grace) to lead those who have Taqwa" (25:74)

The Messenger of Allah (May Allah bless him and grant him peace) said: "The Nikah is my Sunnah (way), whosoever leaves my Sunnah is not from amongst me"
(Kitabus Sunan - Mishkat)
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Welcome to Classical Islam's Official Matrimonial Service
The society that we are living in is by and large being stripped of all morality.
Everything around young people stirs their passions. Free intermingling occurs
at schools, universities, and in the work places. In addition to that,
everything in sight promotes immorality. This situation is a direct pathway to
Zina (fornication), which is where many people are tragically ending up. In
fact, the modern idea of “living-in” is also gradually creeping in to the lives
of our youth. At such a critical stage, just the fact that our youth are aware
that marriage will be a protection from the sin of Zina, is something to be
grateful for.
Abdullaah ibn Mas’ood (radhiallaahu anhu) narrates that
the Messenger (sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam) once addressed the youth of the
Sahaaba and said:
"O assembly of youth! Whoever among you possess the
means to get married, then he should do so. For indeed it is more (helpful) in
lowering the gaze and safeguarding the chastity. As for he who is unable (to get
married), then he should hold on to fasting for indeed it will serve as a shield
for him (against his carnal desires). (Bukhaari, Muslim)
However, the
process of finding the right person to marry is sometimes easier said than done.
Many Muslim brothers and sisters complain that the method of finding a spouse
for marriage is now similar to dating. They are those who sincerely wish to
refrain from all forms of sin when finding a marriage partner, but experience
difficulty in doing so. On the other hand unfortunately, many set out on their
search in a way that is morally wrong. They seek to find the right partner
within friend or family circles, at parties or work places. Therefore, the very
foundation of the marriage is off beam. In the process, young girls and boys
often go through a string of relationships, in search of “the right one”. And if
eventually they do settle down, the marriage is based on what they see as “true
love”, which many a time is nothing but infatuation. As a result, it is no
surprise that divorce rates are on the rise each year.
The Matrimonial
Service has been set up with the intention of reviving the Islamic way of
finding “the right one” and to help those of our Muslim brothers and sisters who
wish to get married within the boundaries that Islam has drawn.
At present
matrimonial websites and other bureaus are providing people with a service, but
sadly, many of them are not Islamic, and do not collaborate with the rules of
Sharee’ah. In consequence, just like most relationships that are embarked upon
without compliance with Sharee’ah, these too leave many Muslim brothers and
sisters shattered and heart-broken. A number of individuals have had dreadful
experiences and have been grossly taken advantage of.
Our method has been
devised under the guidance of senior scholars and is in accordance with the
Sharee’ah (Islamic Code of Law). With the procedure we are implementing on our
website, we wish to inshaAllaah offer a sin-free service for Muslim brothers and
sisters to correspond by, while looking for their better halves.
We pray
that Allaah, The Most Merciful and Most Benevolent, helps all Muslims in finding
the marriage partner that is best for them in terms of their religious and
worldly affairs. We also seek protection in Allaah from Satan and his evil
scheming, and we implore Allaah to shield our service from any sort of violation
of the rules of Sharee’ah. Ameen.
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